How
To Talk To Girls
I have a male friend who is attractive, successful in his career and
single. He does not want to be single, but he just does not know how to
talk to girls. This guy seems like he would be every woman’s
dream, but he winds up being our pal instead of our love interest and
this is strictly due to his personality.
I think that if he knew how to talk to girls he would not be in the
lonely situation he is in right now. One thing that bothers many women
about his personality is his tendency to talk about money. He always
talks about how much things cost, including things he buys for his girl
friends. This is a red flag to many women that he is preoccupied with
money.
Any man who knows how to talk to girls avoids telling them that the
flowers he just bought were a whopping eighty dollars. This just makes
the woman feel awkward about accepting the gift. The statement also
leaves the woman with the feeling that he is expecting something in
return, even if he is not.
We know that he is successful, but we don’t need to hear
about how every one at his job either admires him or is insanely
jealous of him. If he knew how to talk to girls, he would understand
that he just sounds conceited and paranoid. He seems to have delusions
of grandeur or he seems to be exaggerating. He also gives the ladies
the impression that he thinks that all women are out to catch a wealthy
man.
Unfortunately, my friend also likes to discuss other women’s
flaws. A man who knows how to talk to girls is aware that women tend to
be self-conscious about their looks. If he is picking out flaws in
other women, he is most likely going to pick out flaws in his
significant other, especially as the years go by.
A man who knows how to talk to girls celebrates all women’s
beauty. He has an appreciation for females and loves their flaws as
well as their assets. He concentrates on making the girl laugh and
having a good time, not on his finances and not on his career. My
friend is a wonderful man; he just needs to learn how to talk to girls
in a way that makes them understand just how wonderful he really is.
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